Power of the Mind

 

   

Growing up in Winston-Salem, N.C. – the town that tobacco built – played a huge role in my personal need for healing and eventual discovery of both Reiki and hypnosis. Where else would a severely allergic young man pick up a pack of smokes and think, "This is a good idea!"?

By the mid-1990s, seven years of smoking like a freight train had sent my immune system flying off the tracks. My lungs deteriorated to the point where I had chronic bronchitis, and my allergy problems flared into a raging fire, setting my skin and eyes ablaze.

I knew my life depended on quitting smoking, but cigarettes had a strangle hold on me. I kept using nicotine patches and gum to break free from the habit, but no method worked for me until I finally tried hypnosis out of desperation.

One session with a counselor/hypnotherapist saved my life. I smoked a cigarette right before I entered her office and threw away my last pack away as I walked out the door, quitting cold turkey with relative ease and never looking back.

Do It Yourself

In addition to my health and sanity, the counselor gave me another precious gift that day – a sheet of paper describing a simple self-hypnosis technique that I could use to improve almost any aspect of my life: self-confidence, intuition, weight, focus, mood, etc.

It was around this time that I also pursued Reiki training as a means of putting my body back together again. Largely fed up with a medical establishment focused on symptoms instead of root causes, I'd become aware of the importance of taking a holistic approach to my health. Over the years, Reiki and self-hypnosis have proven to be the most powerful healing forces in my life, not only helping me physically and mentally, but also greatly expanding my consciousness.

I eventually learned that the self-hypnosis technique given to me was developed by Elizabeth (Betty) Erickson, wife of the late psychiatrist Milton Erickson, M.D., one of the towering figures in modern hypnotherapy. Though this technique isn't part of Reiki, I share it on this site because of its great life-changing power. It truly is easy enough for anyone to use. If nothing else, it would be a wonderful meditative exercise. But it's oh so much more!

As with Reiki, the obvious beauty of self-hypnosis is that it's a healing art you can easily learn to use on yourself. There's no need to depend on others for treatments. I use the following self-hypnosis technique virtually every day, and I regularly achieve remarkable results.

BETTY ERICKSON'S SELF-HYPNOSIS TECHNIQUE

This technique involves focusing on things you see, hear and feel in order to keep your conscious mind occupied so that it doesn't interfere with your unconscious mind as it works in the background to fulfill your goal for the hypnosis session. Before fully describing the underlying principles of this technique, I'm going to list the steps involved to show how simple it is:

* Get in a comfortable position – Find a comfortable chair to sit in for the duration of the process. Then start breathing slowly, allowing yourself to become deeply relaxed.

* Determine the length of time for the session – 20 minutes is pretty standard, but you could go longer or shorter (15 or 30 minutes, for example).

* State your purpose for the session – Speaking out loud or inside your head, verbally state your goal. For example: "I'm entering a state of self-hypnosis for 15 minutes for the purpose of allowing my unconscious mind to assist me in becoming very self confident (fill in the blank however you like)."

Then say how you want to feel at the end of the session. I usually reinforce my goal by also including it in this sentence. "When I awake in 15 minutes, I will feel joyous, full of positive energy and very self-confident," for example. Or you might want to feel deeply relaxed at the end if bedtime is approaching. I usually only include three goals for my posthypnotic state, because I want to keep my mind focused on my main mission, but you could try including more.

Here's another example of how your statement of purpose might sound: "I'm entering a state of self-hypnosis for 20 minutes for the purpose of allowing my unconscious mind to assist me in becoming completely free of the need to smoke cigarettes. When I awake in 20 minutes, I will feel peaceful, committed to improving my health and completely free of the need to smoke cigarettes."

Experiment with different goals for your sessions. You might need assistance in becoming free of a particular obsessive/compulsive habit. For weight control, you could become committed to eating appropriate amounts of healthy food every day (adjust the language to your needs or liking).

Try simply feeling joyous if you're feeling down. Use the technique each morning with the intent of becoming very focused on working hard at your job today, and see how productive you become. As a professional writer, I always use it to become very focused on writing excellent stories on days when I have major assignments due, putting myself in the zone where all the right words speedily fall into place.

If I were using this technique to quit smoking or lose weight, I would employ it every day for reinforcement. Because so many people who quit smoking gain weight, you could consolidate goals into a single session: "I'm entering a state of self-hypnosis for 20 minutes for the purpose of allowing my unconscious mind to assist me in becoming completely free of the need to smoke cigarettes. When I awake in 20 minutes, I will feel balanced, committed to eating appropriate amounts of healthy food and completely free of the need to smoke cigarettes."

Immediately after you've made your statement of process, you're ready to begin the induction process.

* The Process Looking in front of you, notice three things (one at a time) that you see. Go slowly, pausing for a short while on each. Look at small things, such as a spot on the wall, door knob, candle flame, crystal on the table, etc. Some people like to name the items as they look at them.

As you stare, focus all of your attention on the object's appearance and try to keep your mind as free of random thoughts as possible. Imagine any thoughts popping like bubbles if they float into your consciousness. (NOTE: It's okay if you can't completely still your mind of random thoughts. The process will still work. Just do the best you can.)

Now turn your attention to your auditory channel and notice, one by one, three things that you hear. You might notice the sound of a clock ticking, fan blowing, creak of a settling building, cars passing by outside, or birds chirping.

If it seems perfectly quiet in your particularly environment, notice the sounds of your breathing and swallowing, or create a sound by gently tapping your foot or clicking your teeth. Focus all of your attention on each sound for a short while. If it was just a momentary noise, replay it in your head a few times.

Next shift your attention to your physical being, and notice three sensations that you feel. Again, go slowly from one to the next. Try to use sensations that normally are outside of your awareness, such as the weight of your eyeglasses or the skin sensations created by a watch, piece of jewelry, article of clothing, hair on your forehead or neck, the soles of your shoes, your lips touching, etc. Even focus on an itch if you feel one.

Repeat the process with two different objects, two different sounds and two different feelings.

Repeat the cycle once again using one different object, one different sound and one different feeling.

At this point, you've completed the "external" portion of the process. Now it's time to begin the "internal" part by closing your eyes.

Imagine one small thing you see. Use whatever pops into your head (a leaf, diamond, toothbrush, etc.) and focus all of your attention on it for a short while.

Then imagine one thing you hear. It could be a part of a song or the sound of a lawnmower, whistle, running water, etc. Though this is technically the "internal" part of the process, feel free to use an actual environmental one if it comes to the forefront of your attention. It's better to incorporate such a noise than be distracted by it.

Next, imagine one thing you feel. You could think of the feelings created by the sun on your nose, wet sand under your toes, a kiss on the lips, dental floss between your gums, a razor shaving your face or legs, etc. Try your best to focus all of your attention on these sensations as if they were actually happening. Again, if an actual physical sensation comes to your attention, feel free to use that.

Repeat the process with two different images, two different sounds, and two different feelings.

Repeat the cycle once again using three different images, three different sounds, and three different feelings.

Then you're done. Open your eyes and go about your day. You'll often find that your body's internal clock works so well that you're done exactly at the end of the allotted amount of time. But even if you're a little over or under your desired period of self-hypnosis, it doesn't matter.

Regular practice will yield better and better results!

WHY IT WORKS

Hypnosis is a state of concentrated, focused attention. If you've ever found yourself intensely involved in a book, piece of music or television program, you might have entered a naturally occurring hypnotic state. Hypnotic procedures typically involve moving away from the environment around us and turning our attention inward. The Erickson technique accomplishes this by moving from actual environmental sights, sounds and feelings to imagined ones.

In many effective self-hypnosis procedures, participants enter a trance and then give themselves suggestions via the conscious mind. However, a guiding principle of the Erickson technique is that understanding by the conscious mind is unnecessary for change. As advocates of this technique have noted, if your conscious mind knew what to do about particular problems, you wouldn't need hypnosis at all.

In fact, your conscious mind often gets in the way of change, saying things like "I can't..." or "I don't know how to...." The Erickson technique described above is designed to keep the conscious mind occupied so that it won't interfere while your unconscious mind is doing the work you requested.

The Erickson technique takes full advantage of the power and resourcefulness of your unconscious mind, which has learned a tremendous amount during your lifetime(s) and can apply this knowledge for you in hypnosis. While your conscious mind can only process so much information at a time, your unconscious mind is not so limited. It can think holographically and is capable of finding better solutions for you than your conscious mind.

The reason why the Erickson technique requires you to focus on things you see, hear and feel is not only to keep your conscious mind occupied, but also to help you enter an altered state. We process information (or think) in pictures, sounds and feelings. In Neurolinguistic Programming, these sensory modalities are referred to as representational systems: visual, auditory and kinesthetic (feeling).

Most of us have developed greater proficiency with one particular system, even though we each use all three of them. Therefore, the individual who thinks primarily in images wouldn't experience an altered state of consciousness simply by visualizing.

However, if that same individual were to experience a preponderance of feelings or sensations, this would be unusual an alteration of their state of consciousness. An altered state simply refers to processing information in a different manner than usual.

I highly encourage anyone reading this page to give this techqniue at least several tries. It can change your life! You may find that the effects of self-hypnosis in some areas (self-confidence, for example) wear off over time.

If you find results fading away sooner than you'd like, experiment with placing a time frame when stating your principal goal (for the next day, week, even year). Don't be discouraged. Just keep repeating the process until desired changes become a permanent part of your mind's program.

The technique is also effective for short-term goals, such as being focused on a particular project that you wish to let go of upon completion. You mind will know when it's time to shift into another mode. You're still in control.

In quick review, the process goes like this...

After making your statement of purpose, notice and focus on:

* Three things you see, three things you hear, and three things you feel.

* Two things you see, two things you hear, and two things you feel.

* One thing you see, one thing you hear, and one thing you feel.

Then close your eyes, imagining and focusing on:

* One thing you see, one thing you hear, and one thing you feel.

* Two things you see, two things you hear, and two things you feel.

* Three things you see, three things you hear, and three things you feel.

If you have questions about this process, feel free to e-mail Brad Dixon at brad@wellspringreiki.com.